Twin Flames And Twin Souls
Are They The Same?
The short answer to that is no. I will tell you why I say that. A few years ago, I met the person whose soul is my soul's twin. Now I had never heard of soul's having twins before meeting this person and certainly had never felt such a strong overwhelming connection to anyone before we met. I knew we had a soul connection but I had no idea how we are connected. I was so drawn to this person which is something that I had never experienced before either.
I began to research soul connection's and found a lot of information on the Twin Flame connection. After reading a lot of information and watching countless Youtube videos about this type of connection, I became totally convinced that this is what our soul connection was and that we were going to end up together as a couple. This went on for a couple of years, until he left town. His leaving plunged me into a darkness that I hadn't experienced for a long time. Because, without realising it I had completely bought into the delusion that is the Twin Flame connection, I kept telling myself not to worry that this is all part of the journey, you see it's widely believed that, the journey to union for twin flames is one of emotional turmoil to grow and end up on the same frequency so that they can come into some wonderful union and carry out the joint mission that they incarnate on earth to do.
For months, I could feel the darkness around me, threatening to consume me if I let it. I had already been a single person for more than a decade when I met this person. I became angry with the Universe, asking questions about why I met this person, for what reason did we meet, you see he was already in another connection. I had begun to realise that we were not going to be together as a couple in this life time but part of me was till holding onto the fact that we had a soul connection, I still hadn't realised the truth about our connection. Slowly but surely, the darkness began to fade and I started to re-join the world again although I still had work to do to heal from this experience.
Being back in the world, I started to get back on social media again. One day on Youtube, I came across a channel called Dreemtime Academy one of the videos was in my feed, it was a live video, it hadn't been going for very long and there wasn't many watching when I decided to watch. Hayden is the name of the person who runs Dreemtime Academy and he was doing live star seed numerology reading's, he told everyone to put their date of birth in the chat and he would randomly pick people to do readings for. I thought what the heck, so I put my date of birth in the chat as instructed. Much to my surprise, Hayden chose me for a reading in which, he got me to a tee, during the reading he would hold up colour mirror oil bottles and essence sprays to which I was really drawn to, especially the essence sprays. I was really impressed with the reading and even more so with the colour bottles and essence sprays, I decided to explore the website to find out more about these colour oil bottles and essences. I signed up for the newsletter and the first one I received, there was some information about booking in for a free fifteen minute chat with Hayden, I thought, what the heck, I have nothing to loose so I booked that chat with Hayden and it turned out to be one of the best things I have ever done. After our chat, I was on my way to becoming a Colour Mirrors Practitioner. The course was amazing, Hayden was the perfect teacher and mentor, so easy to talk to, I was able to work through my issues and heal myself with colour.
In the days, weeks and months after finishing the course I found that I was constantly gaining new insights to all sorts of things to do with my life, particularly about why my life is the way that it is and had been. I noticed that I see and think differently to how I saw and thought prior to doing the course. I finally stopped deluding myself and I now know that my connection with this person is not a Twin Flame. Our connection is the Twin Soul, our Souls are twins, they came into being in the exact same moment. Not all Twin Souls come together as a couple or even meet if they incarnate into the same life time and the connection doesn't contain all the turmoil that the Twin Flame connection seems too. I know now that it wasn't love for him that I was feeling, it was the love our souls feel for each other. He was bought into my life so that I could experience what TRUE LOVE feels like because I have never had it in my life. I am truly grateful for this experience, as not everyone knows what it's like to feel such unconditional love on a soul level. This experience will remain with me always.
My understanding of the Twin Flame connection is that there are variations on the connection and that it's an energy rather than a person, your Twin Flame is someone on the exact same frequency as you, so, just as you can have many soul mates, you can have more than one Twin Flame as well. Unlike the Twin Soul connection where you only have one twin and the Twin Soul connection is much deeper than the Twin Flame one. Also the description that Twin Flames are two halves of the same soul doesn't resonate with me, to me that implies that there are two people walking around with half a soul which is not possible, as all of us are born whole.
I say to you, if you are currently experiencing this, never let anyone have that amount or kind of power over you. Live your life, don't wait for something that may never be, you need to ask yourself, Is this emotional turmoil really worthwhile?. Know and believe that you are worthy of love as I now do, because you are worthy and deserving of a love that is real and true.
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| From the imagination of Pamela |
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